Pohela Boishakh—the first day of the Bengali New Year—has always held a special place in my heart. But this year was different. It was my first time celebrating it as a mother. As the morning sun rose on this colorful day, I looked at my little son sleeping peacefully and thought, How can I make this day memorable for him, even if he might not remember it later?

Let me share how our day went, the joy it brought, and a few survival tips for moms navigating the chaos of a Boishakhi mela with a baby.

A New Beginning with My Little One

The day began with the smell of steaming panta bhaat, fried hilsa, and fresh green chillies in the air. I dressed my son in a tiny red Punjabi with golden designs. His soft baby hair was neatly combed, and he looked like a little prince.

I wore my traditional white saree with red borders. As I looked at us in the mirror, I felt proud—two generations ready to welcome the new year together.

First Stop: A Family Gathering

Before heading out to the mela, we visited my parents’ home. My son was surrounded by his cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents. The house echoed with laughter and the sound of traditional songs.

We took family photos, had breakfast, and shared old stories. I could see my son soaking up all the warmth around him—smiling at faces, touching colorful toys, and even trying to grab a flower from the alpona design on the floor.

Off to the Boishakhi Mela

In the afternoon, we went to the local Boishakhi mela. The streets were packed with people dressed in vibrant reds, whites, and yellows. The air buzzed with the rhythm of dhol, the smell of jhalmuri, and the cheer of people celebrating with full hearts.

I carried my son in a sling, tightly held against my chest. His curious eyes kept moving—watching the balloons, the puppet shows, and the kites above.

Keeping My Baby Calm in a Crowded Festival

Being out with a baby in such a busy place isn’t easy, but with a few steps, it can be manageable and even enjoyable. Here’s what helped me:

Choose the Right Time to Go

We avoided the peak hours. Early afternoon, just before the big crowd rushes in, was perfect. It was bright but not too hot, and there was enough space to move around without getting crushed in the crowd.

Dress Comfortably

I made sure my son’s clothes were soft and breathable. His Punjabi was made of cotton, and I packed a change of clothes just in case. He also wore a soft cap to protect his head from the sun.

Keep Essentials Handy

I carried a small backpack with:

  • Diapers and wipes
  • A thin sheet for sitting or feeding
  • Water and a bottle of formula
  • A few toys to distract him if needed
  • A cotton napkin for sweat or sudden messes

I kept these things organized so I wouldn’t panic in case he got fussy.

Babywearing for the Win

Using a sling or baby carrier helped me keep him close and safe. It gave me both hands free to hold onto my purse, take pictures, or enjoy some snacks. My baby felt secure, and I could sense he was more relaxed because he was near me.

Avoid Loud Noises and Keep Moving

We stayed away from very loud stages or speakers. Babies can get startled easily. Instead, we enjoyed quieter corners of the mela—watching traditional dolls, handmade crafts, and colorful kites.

When I noticed he was getting overstimulated, I gently walked around with him, humming softly in his ear. He soon calmed down, almost falling asleep to the beat of the distant dhol.

A Moment to Cherish Forever

As the sun began to set, golden light bathed the mela. My son had just woken up from a short nap in the sling. His cheeks were rosy, and he looked around again—calmer this time.

I gave him a small hand-made flute (safe and baby-friendly). He clutched it tightly and gave me the biggest smile. That moment was all I needed—a reminder that even a baby can feel the magic of celebration when it’s filled with love and warmth.

Final Thoughts: Celebrate Slowly, With Heart

Celebrating Pohela Boishakh with a baby doesn’t have to mean staying home. It means slowing down, being prepared, and letting the joy unfold naturally.

Yes, there will be diaper changes in odd places, moments of fussiness, and noise—but there will also be smiles, bonding, and memories that will stay with you even when your baby grows up.

I’m grateful for that day. For the first Baishakh I got to spend not just as a daughter, but as a mother.

FAQs About Pohela Boishakh with Babies

Q: Is it safe to take a baby to a Boishakhi mela?
A: Yes, if you go during less crowded times, keep your baby close, and avoid loud areas. Babywearing and preparation are key.

Q: What should I carry in my baby bag for a festival?
A: Diapers, wipes, feeding supplies, toys, a napkin, an extra outfit, and a lightweight sheet for sitting.

Q: What age is ideal for taking a baby to a mela?
A: Every baby is different, but 4+ months is generally manageable. Make sure your baby has proper head control and is used to short outings.

Q: How do I protect my baby from the sun and dust?
A: Use a soft cotton cap, keep your baby close to your chest, avoid dusty areas, and carry a muslin cloth to lightly cover if needed.